|
Instinct
|
Self-Preserving Myself |
Social All of Us |
Sexual You and Me |
| Drive |
The
search for Survival |
The
search for Community |
The
search for Intimacy |
| Focus |
Self My World |
Group Our Greater World |
The
Beloved Our Intimate World |
| Desire |
Desire
for Security Well being Food • Comfort • Safety Protection • Conservation |
Desire
for Group Social Acceptance People • Recognition Popularity • Honor • Status |
Desire
for Mate Pair Bonding Affinity • Closeness • Wholeness The other half • The beloved |
| Fear |
Fear
of Not Surviving Suspense • Poverty Illness • Endangerment Loss • Annihilation |
Fear
of Not Belonging Loneliness • Low ranking Inferiority • Failure • Outcast Alienation • Isolation |
Fear
of Undesirability Unworthiness • Letting go Brokenness • Incompleteness Disconnection • Invalidation |
Issue |
Living
Issues To be or not to be How to be |
Relating
Issues To relate or not to relate How to relate |
Intimacy
Issues To be intimate or not to be intimate How to be
intimate |
| Preoccupation |
Coping Anxiety • Mortality • Health • Diets Obesity • Vigilance • Safety • Ease Finances • Nourishment • Time Essentials • Sensuality• Possessions |
Prestige Fellowship • Events • Cooperation Admiration • Pecking Order • Clubs High Ranking • Superiority •Glory
Causes • Companionship • Fame |
Connection Intrigue • Encounters • Rivalry Attractiveness • Impulse • Passion The Best Friend • Revealing Self Eye Contact • Union • Glamour |
| Strategy |
Caution
or Self-destruction Aggressive-Defensive Logistics • Health Fanatic Constriction • Accumulating Conservation • Hoarding • Paranoia |
Sociability
or unsociability Approval-Shame Philanthropy • Misanthropy Rigidity • Companionship Friendliness • Enmity • Achievement |
Abstinence
or promiscuity Power-Submission Responsiveness • Creativity Imagination • Searching • Curiosity Gender Roles • Possessiveness |
| Energy |
Conserved
energy Grounded Somber • Heavy • Serious Stable • Consistent • Solid
|
Split
energy Cursory Personable • Superficial • Cooperative Superficial • Inconsistent • Rigid |
High
energy Intense Playful • Light • Penetrating One on One • Passionate • Lyrical |
Theme Statements |
How
am I? I am my body Am I secure? I am invincible I sacrifice for myself I must make it on my own |
Who
am I? I am my group Am I popular? I am considerate I sacrifice for the group We can make it if we all cooperate |
What
am I? I am my relationship Am I attractive? I am powerful I sacrifice for the relationship You and Me against the world |
| |
1 Anxiety,
worry, expectation |
1 Rigid,
non adaptable, righteous |
1 Zeal,
jealousy, rivalry, heat |
| |
2 Entitlement,
me first, privilege |
2 Ambition,
aspirations, devotee |
2 Seduction, aggression,assault |
| |
3 Security,
accumulating, scarcity |
3 Prestige,
achievement, accolades |
3 Masculine
or feminine role, ideal |
| Enneagram |
4 Dauntless,
tenacious, contained |
4 Shame,
honor, rejected elitist |
4 Competition,
hatred, idolatry |
| Point |
5 My
home, my castle, hideout |
5 Totem,
identity, secret societies |
5 Confidence,
trust, supreme love |
| Concerns |
6 Warmth,
affection or rejection |
6 Dutiful,
fellowship, social enforcer |
6 Strength & beauty,
provocative |
| |
7 Chosen
family or group security |
7 Sacrifice
for group, martyr |
7 Fascination,
suggestibility, charmer |
| |
8 Satisfactory
survival, territory |
8 Comradeship,
friends & foes |
8 Possession,
surrender, devotion |
| |
9 Appetites,
insatiable, collector |
9 Peripheral
participation, anchor |
9 Union,
merging, oneness,symbiosis |