|
Instinct |
Self-Preserving Myself |
Social All of Us |
Sexual You and Me |
| Drive | The
search for Survival |
The
search for Community |
The
search for Intimacy |
| Focus | Self My World |
Group Our Greater World |
The
Beloved Our Intimate World |
| Desire | Desire
for Security Well being Food • Comfort • Safety Protection • Conservation |
Desire
for Group Social Acceptance People • Recognition Popularity • Honor • Status |
Desire
for Mate Pair Bonding Affinity • Closeness • Wholeness The other half • The beloved |
| Fear | Fear
of Not Surviving Suspense • Poverty Illness • Endangerment Loss • Annihilation |
Fear
of Not Belonging Loneliness • Low ranking Inferiority • Failure • Outcast Alienation • Isolation |
Fear
of Undesirability Unworthiness • Letting go Brokenness • Incompleteness Disconnection • Invalidation |
Issue |
Living
Issues To be or not to be How to be |
Relating
Issues To relate or not to relate How to relate |
Intimacy
Issues To be intimate or not to be intimate How to be intimate |
| Preoccupation | Coping Anxiety • Mortality • Health • Diets Obesity • Vigilance • Safety • Ease Finances • Nourishment • Time Essentials • Sensuality• Possessions |
Prestige Fellowship • Events • Cooperation Admiration • Pecking Order • Clubs High Ranking • Superiority •Glory Causes • Companionship • Fame |
Connection Intrigue • Encounters • Rivalry Attractiveness • Impulse • Passion The Best Friend • Revealing Self Eye Contact • Union • Glamour |
| Strategy | Caution
or Self-destruction Aggressive-Defensive Logistics • Health Fanatic Constriction • Accumulating Conservation • Hoarding • Paranoia |
Sociability
or unsociability Approval-Shame Philanthropy • Misanthropy Rigidity • Companionship Friendliness • Enmity • Achievement |
Abstinence
or promiscuity Power-Submission Responsiveness • Creativity Imagination • Searching • Curiosity Gender Roles • Possessiveness |
| Energy | Conserved
energy |
Split
energy Cursory Personable • Superficial • Cooperative Superficial • Inconsistent • Rigid |
High
energy Intense Playful • Light • Penetrating One on One • Passionate • Lyrical |
Theme Statements |
How
am I? I am my body Am I secure? I am invincible I sacrifice for myself I must make it on my own |
Who
am I? I am my group Am I popular? I am considerate I sacrifice for the group We can make it if we all cooperate |
What
am I? I am my relationship Am I attractive? I am powerful I sacrifice for the relationship You and Me against the world |
| 1 Anxiety, worry, expectation | 1 Rigid, non adaptable, righteous | 1 Zeal, jealousy, rivalry, heat | |
| 2 Entitlement, me first, privilege | 2 Ambition, aspirations, devotee | 2 Seduction, aggression,assault | |
| 3 Security, accumulating, scarcity | 3 Prestige, achievement, accolades | 3 Masculine or feminine role, ideal | |
| Enneagram | 4 Dauntless, tenacious, contained | 4 Shame, honor, rejected elitist | 4 Competition, hatred, idolatry |
| Point | 5 My home, my castle, hideout | 5 Totem, identity, secret societies | 5 Confidence, trust, supreme love |
| Concerns | 6 Warmth, affection or rejection | 6 Dutiful, fellowship, social enforcer | 6 Strength & beauty, provocative |
| 7 Chosen family or group security | 7 Sacrifice for group, martyr | 7 Fascination, suggestibility, charmer | |
| 8 Satisfactory survival, territory | 8 Comradeship, friends & foes | 8 Possession, surrender, devotion | |
| 9 Appetites, insatiable, collector | 9 Peripheral participation, anchor | 9 Union, merging, oneness,symbiosis |
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KKH Chernick-Fauvre (rev.04)